‘It was really moving to witness': Lonely WWII Vet approaches the ‘intimidating teens in hoodies' a the park, genuine friendship blossoms and teens happily visit him every week for the rest of his life

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    ‘It was really moving to witness': Lonely WWII Vet approaches the ‘intimidating teens in hoodies' a the park, genuine friendship blossoms and teens happily visit him every week for the rest of his life
  • Hi. I've been looking for a place to share this story, because I often think about it and when I do, it makes me happy.
  • Around 15 years ago, I was working at a care home in a small town. It was a nice residential home and everyone was treated well.
  • We had an elderly gentleman, John, who had been a WW2 soldier. He was lovely but a little lonely.
  • He wife had passed and he had no children. We did our best for him but he started to get depressed and fed up with life.
  • He used to go for walks around a nearby park every day with his walking stick.
  • One summer, he came back to the home upset. He said a group of teenagers in hoods were in the park all of the time and he found it intimidating.
  • ‘It was really moving to witness': Lonely WWII Vet approaches the ‘intimidating teens in hoodies' a the park, genuine friendship blossoms and teens happily visit him every week for the rest of his life
  • He said they were loud and he was frightened. He stopped going to the park for a few days but missed the walk too much.
  • On the day he went back, he said, if I'm not back in an hour, come looking for me.' He wasn't back in an hour.
  • I gave it 10 more minutes, left someone else in charge and ran to find him.
  • I thought he'd had an accident or ran into trouble of some kind. When I got to the park, John was sitting on a bench with a group of 4 teenagers gathered around him seemingly hanging off every word John was saying.
  • I went over, checked on John and he was fine. He was thrilled with his audience and talking about WW2.
  • ‘It was really moving to witness': Lonely WWII Vet approaches the ‘intimidating teens in hoodies' a the park, genuine friendship blossoms and teens happily visit him every week for the rest of his life
  • He came back to the home 2 hours later, overjoyed that he'd made new friends. John had actually gone over to them and told them they were intimidating and that it wasnt fair.
  • The kids had taken their hoods down and apologised. Then they'd all got talking. Anyhow, nearly every day, John met them at the park and eventually, he started wearing a cap ( backwards too) when autumn came and winter, those kids came to the home once a week with fizzy drinks and chocolate bars, and watched a war movie or the band of brothers series with John.
  • They called him Pops. For Christmas, they gave him a hoodie which John actually loved and wore a lot.
  • John went from being lonely and sad, to being happy, and even when he got very unwell and had to go into a hospice, those kids carried on visiting him until John passed away.
  • I think John had a big effect on them but they had a big effect on John too and changed him.
  • It was a genuine friendship that was really moving to witness. It always warms my heart and it's my favourite memory from my time working there.

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